Reality and defeat

Memory is the minds way of playing tricks. It resides in somethingthat has no actual existence, physically or otherwise. The past andthe future are both purely a conjecture, a definition for framing certain contexts, for using as a point of reference. Time is nothing but the everflowing present, no?

Fleeting moments are a reality, no conjecture there. Non-attachment and making peace seem to be the best way to deal with it.  The highest reality is this:The elemental entity remains, but form, by definition is ever-changing. Attachment to form is therefore attachment to something that is finite. If you can see the infinite within it...the unchanging elemental nature of it, that seems to be the closest to continuity that one can hope for.